When it comes to love and dating, especially after 40, many of our habits change. We’re no longer as eager to please, but more confident in asserting what we want and need. The dating pool changes too. There were only a few options back in the day, but now opportunities to meet people, even explore possible relationships, abound.
The pharmaceutical industry grew and evolved with society, and the arrival of better communication and the internet made it possible for drug companies to have a bigger impact on people’s daily lives. One of the biggest impacts was with the development of Viagra. When this medication first arrived, it gave men who took it a reason to finally have an orgasm, and it forever changed the way people viewed love and sex. (Learn more about Viagra.)
The Emergence Of The New Woman
One of the most amazing things about modern love and dating is how much it has changed in just a few short years. When Viagra and similar medications first came out, they were accompanied by a fair share of stigma. In the old school of thought, men needed these drugs to get their “fix,” and women were supposed to just shut up and take it. (Read more about the stigma surrounding Viagra.)
The stigma has largely disappeared. Today, many women are openly discussing their sexual desires and how they can help their partners achieve an orgasm. Some are even looking for ways to enhance their sex life, whether that’s through medication or other means. (Learn more about the history of the New Woman.)
How Viagra Changed The Way We Date And Have Sex
Before the advent of Viagra, sex and love were seen as mutually exclusive. If a man loved a woman, it meant he was willing to sacrifice sex for her. On the flip side, if a woman loved a man, it meant she was ready to have sex with anyone and forget about commitment. (This was especially true for women who were raped or coerced into having sex.)
Thanks to Viagra, this conventional thinking was turned on its head. For the first time, sex and love were given the same priority. If you were sexually active and wanted to maintain a serious relationship, taking a pill to have an orgasm wasn’t an option. (Learn more about the effects of Viagra on sex.)
Men with low self-esteem, anxiety, or other issues that made them unable to have orgasms found the drug extremely useful. It gave them the confidence to explore their sexuality with their partners and enabled them to feel closer to women. (This was the primary purpose of Viagra back in the day.)
Some of the impacts of Viagra went beyond sexuality. Many women report an increase in confidence and a boost to their careers as a result of the drug. It wasn’t just about having orgasms either; it was about becoming active participants in the bedroom — whether they wanted to be or not!— and having fun while doing it. (Learn more about the effects of Viagra on women.)
The Future Of Dating And Sex
While the stigma surrounding Viagra has largely disappeared, there is still a degree of taboos surrounding sex and love. Many people, mostly men, still find it difficult to talk about their feelings, especially when it comes to women. This can make it difficult to identify your true feelings, which can lead you to make unhealthy decisions. (Learn more about the future of dating and sex.)
Fortunately, this doesn’t have to be the case. With the help of technology and the internet, people are now much more open about their feelings and desires. If you’re looking to take your love life to the next level, make sure to build a strong connection with someone first. Expressing your feelings and being honest about what you want will help you to build a much stronger foundation for your relationship. (Learn more about how to find the perfect partner.)
There are also many different medications now available that can help with both male and female sexual issues. If you’re struggling with low intimacy, depression, or anxiety, it might be worth exploring whether or not these drugs could help. (Learn more about the future of sex and love.)