Let’s be candid — getting a blow job and giving a blow job are two very different experiences. One is casual, satisfying, and fun; the other is intense, passionate, and exciting. You get to decide which one you want. Perhaps you’ve given a blow job to experience the latter, in which case awesome! But if all you want is a casual, fun blow job and the thought of getting up on a stage and baring your soul with all your friends around you gives you cold sweats, then maybe consider something else. You might even like giving head — it’s a fun way to discover new things about yourself.
After you ejaculate, the muscles in your penis relax and blood refills the organ. This is what causes the sudden rush of warmth in your groin and the sensual tingling that often accompanies orgasm. When this reflow of blood reaches your head, it sometimes triggers a light concussion which is why you may experience brief moments of dizziness or even nausea. This isn’t pleasant and it usually passes after a minute or two. Don’t expect to feel totally refreshed like you just finished working out. But this is also totally normal and to be expected. Your body is saying “hey, I just finished giving a really good blow job”.
Then there’s the matter of what to do about your now empty penis. In most cases, once the erotic thrill of oral sex has worn off, your partner will simply walk away. Sometimes, however, they may want to continue the encounter and invite you to go down on them again. When this happens, be sure to express your gratitude for the opportunity and assure them that you’d love to continue — but that you have other obligations that you have to attend to. This way, you can decline politely while still maintaining your integrity.
More Serious Matters
If your partner is a woman who wants to have intercourse with you, things get a bit more serious. Remember that your penis is now a bit of a ticking time bomb. Before you know it, your penis will be experiencing a rapid expansion as blood rushes to the surface once again. During this time, there’s a chance that you could get injured. Whether you’re playing rough or accidentally knock something loose, there’s a chance that you could tear or snuff out your manhood. This injury could potentially be serious, especially if it’s not treated promptly. While rare, there are documented cases of men whose penises were nearly totally torn off during oral sex. If you’re worried about what would happen if your manhood was to be damaged or taken, then it’s time to consider other options. Like I said — it’s a bit of a ticking time bomb. Don’t expect it to be the most pleasant experience of your life, but be confident that you’ll get through it. And when you do — rejoice! You’re a man again!
Many people are under the misperception that ejaculation and orgasm are one and the same. Though they share a common feature — the sudden rush of pleasure — they are actually two very different experiences. At the moment of ejaculation, the sperm are released from the sperm-holding chambers in your testicles and begin their journey to the egg. Once they reach their final destination — your uterus — they will fertilize the egg and begin the process of cellular reproduction. This is what causes the stirrups to go “pop” as the doctor gives you the green light to push. As for orgasm, this is when various nerve endings throughout your genitals begin to tingle in response to sexual stimulation. This is why you may experience such varied sensations during and after sex — some men feel empowered, others get anxious, and some feel both at the same time.
At the end of the day, getting a blow job is a great way to spend time with your partner and satisfy your desires. Just make sure that you’re both prepared for the unexpected and that you discuss any potential risks and drawbacks before you begin. As long as you both consent and there aren’t any foreseeable risks, then who cares what happens after? For the sake of your own mental health, it’s best to be mindful about what will happen, so you don’t have to worry about it at a later date. And who knows — maybe getting a blow job from time to time can even be good for your health.