Last week I wrote about the many problems that young men are experiencing when it comes to getting and staying erect. I mentioned that many medications are available to help with this issue, but most men don’t feel comfortable going down this road, as it can also have some serious side effects. Besides, there’s also the stigma that surrounds this type of medication, as people often assume you’re trying to ‘legally’ get high.
This week I’d like to take a step back and discuss the topic from a different perspective: why don’t most men benefit from Viagra?
The Limitations Of Genitals
Before we begin, let’s establish one important fact: it’s not the size of your penis that matters, it’s what you do with it. It would be great if all men could have a 12-inch penis, but the reality is that not all men are created equal, and some men are clearly inferior when it comes to achieving an erection. This is why it’s important to understand the limitations of the male organ, which means acknowledging that there are things that you can’t do with it that other women can. The only way to truly satisfy a woman is by doing those things that she can’t do for herself.
Less Tolerance For Erections
Men are surprisingly less tolerant of erections than women, which means that you’ll often have to deal with them sooner rather than later. The hormone dihydrotestosterone (DHT) plays a major role in the development of male reproductive organs, particularly the prostate. When exposed to the right stimulus, DHT will encourage the growth of blood vessels in the penis, as well as increase the sensitivity of the penis nerve endings. As a result, it’ll become easier for you to achieve and maintain an erection. This is why many men experience the positive effects of Viagra early in their sexual life, but not all men benefit from it immediately. It is something that you have to learn to live with.
Mixed Feelings About Erections
In addition to the fact that men are less tolerant of erections than women, there’s also the issue of mixed feelings that many men experience when it comes to their genitalia. While there’s nothing wrong with your penis (no pun intended), there are certain things that you can’t do with it that might make you feel a bit inadequate as a man. After all, no one wants to be seen as ‘less than’ by their partner, and if you have any doubts in this regard, it might be best to refrain from attempting any intimate act. Women have probably heard this sort of thing a million times, but it bears repeating: women will usually feel more attracted to you and your partner will have better sexual relations because of it. Don’t waste your time feeling inadequate, it’s a mixed bag when it comes to the male anatomy, and you should feel proud of what you’ve been given.
Erections Aren’t A Priority
If you’re like most men, you’ll probably feel that your sexual needs come first, followed by your general well-being. This is why you might not prioritize your erections the way that you should: they aren’t that important. The truth is that having an erection doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be able to satisfy your partner, and it certainly doesn’t mean that she’ll feel secure enough to have sexual relations with you. Some men have even found that their sex drive decreased after taking Viagra, which is something that you should know and acknowledge before you begin taking this medication. Your sexual well-being is of utmost importance, and it’ll improve your overall quality of life, not just your sexual life. If you think that you might be affected in this way, it could be a good idea to consult with your doctor so that he can prescribe you alternative solutions. There are also medical devices that can be used to treat this issue, as well as help with other problems that you might be experiencing.
The Stigma Surrounding Viagra
Last but not least, we have the stigma that surrounds Viagra. Although it’s not that great of a drug, it’s considered ‘taboo’ to discuss your impotence issues with your partner, as well as family and friends. Many men don’t feel comfortable seeking help for their sexual problems, as it might make them seem ‘less than’ to their partner. If you’re worried about being seen as ‘less than’, there are alternatives that you can try. If you want to improve your sexual life with your partner, there are ways to do that that don’t involve taking a pill every day. It is important to work through your issues together as a team, and it’s never easy starting over, but it’s always worth it in the end. In the meantime, don’t be afraid to try alternative methods for improving your sex life, like meditation, aromatherapy, or sensual massage, as these can all help to increase blood flow to the penis, as well as pleasure sensations in the pelvic area. Whatever it might be, your partner will appreciate it if you try to make her feel as good as new again, and that’s the most important thing, in my opinion.